The Definition of a Playa

I love me some Jason Whitlock. I feel my response to most of his writing is usually "that's right, preach it". Case in point: Rick Pitino. The man cheated on his wife and yesterday played the victim. Here's a portion of what Jason had to say about it.

When a playa gets busted, he/she changes the discussion from what he did wrong to something someone else did wrong and is more than likely untrue or exaggerated. A playa creates a false reality and then expects you to hold a debate about the lie he just concocted.

So true. And I know because I saw the exact same response from my ex.

I know it's been a while since I've written anything but what I went through 2 years ago but it's because I have moved on. But that doesn't mean that when I hear things like this there isn't a part of me that doesn't get a little pissed. It still just blows my mind how people that cheat in their marriages always divert the focus off of themselves and enter a false reality of lies and exaggeration. There's an acceptance of the wrong doing when either convicted or caught but for some reason that acceptance quickly moves to diversion.

Anyways, I know we are all one step away but I pray I never become that which had hurt me so deeply.